
This article was written by Camille Johnson. Thanks Camille for submitting these great pieces! I, Kirby Moore, the owner of AstroDharma offer somatic process work, in-person trauma resolution and long-distance nervous system repair. I have been studying and practicing Nurturing Resilience for 20+ years.
This advice (below) from Camille is a good start! Just keep in mind that if we have early trauma and developmental wounding, it can be very hard to change these internal patterns on our own. We need to work with competent practitioners to shift our nervous system out of old, out-dated defense mechanisms. Let me know if you want to discuss working together to better understand difficult trauma symptoms or to shift old patterns of stuckness. You can reach out here: https://www.mkirbymoore.com/contact.html Let’s see if it might be a good fit to work together!
And without further ado, here is Camille’s article!
The world isn’t slowing down — it’s twitchy, unpredictable, and always a little sideways. If you’re waiting for it to calm so you can catch up, bad news: that’s not happening. But
maybe the goal isn’t catching up. Maybe it’s reshaping how you think so you’re less thrown off when the terrain shifts. This isn’t about always being ready. It’s about being less rattled when you’re not.
Developing Openness to Change
You don’t have to love change — but you do need to stop flinching every time it shows up. What catches people off guard isn’t always the change itself, but how tightly they were clinging to the previous version of things. If you can loosen that grip — just a little —
you’ve already bought yourself space to move. Openness isn’t idealism. It’s adaptation
without panic. Some people call that “mental flexibility.” But it’s really not getting whiplash every Monday morning.
Responding to Uncertainty with Curiosity
Something’s coming. You don’t know what it is. Your brain starts scanning: threat? loss?
failure? That’s the default mode — fear takes the wheel fast. But what if you could steer
differently? Let curiosity get there first. Try asking yourself “What’s really going on here?”
instead of “How do I get out of this?” Sometimes the only thing standing between spiraling and solving is the question you ask first.
Expanding Adaptability Through Lifelong Learning
Brains atrophy when bored. They spark when challenged. One way to stay sharp — and
adaptive — is to keep feeding your thinking engine with new, unfamiliar stuff. Flexible
programs in business or tech aren’t just about job skills. They train you to stretch, reassess, unlearn. That rewiring pays off every time the world zigs and you need to zag. By exploring IT degree options and learning about cybersecurity and information technology, you can flex that part of your brain that still wants more — more capacity, more confidence, more “what’s next.”
Strengthening Emotional Flexibility
Here’s a trick: just because you feel something doesn’t mean you have to follow it. You can be scared and still make the phone call. Frustrated and still say something kind. It’s not fake — it’s skill. Emotional agility isn’t bottling it up. It’s not performing composure. It’s noticing that a feeling landed and choosing whether or not to act on its terms. Most people were never taught this. They just inherit whatever their nervous system does first.
Applying Mindfulness for Mental Stability
You don’t need incense or perfect posture. You just need a breath you can feel and a
thought you don’t chase. Mindfulness, when it’s stripped down, is just not reacting instantly to everything that buzzes in your head. That pause? That’s leverage. You can redirect, you can disengage, or you can double down — but it’s on your terms now. People call that peace, but it’s also a tactical advantage.
Building and Maintaining Social Support
Resilient people don’t do it all alone — they know who they can turn to when things feel
heavy. Sometimes, it’s a short message from a friend that reminds you you’re not the only one struggling. The wording doesn’t have to be perfect. What matters is that someone reached out and you felt seen. Having strong relationships isn’t about needing help all the time — it’s about knowing you don’t have to pretend you’re fine when you’re not. Support systems aren’t extra. They’re essential.
Practicing Optimism with Realism
Hope without honesty is fluff. Real optimism isn’t about pretending things are okay — it’s
believing they could be, and acting like your effort still matters. At the same time, there’s
value in calling something what it is. The trick is learning to hold both: what hurts and what could heal. That balance? It’s not always graceful. But it keeps you from falling into despair or denial — and that alone is resilience in motion. The future’s not neat. Neither are you. Good — that means you’re built for it. The goal here isn’t to be bulletproof. It’s to bend, absorb, reroute. Resilience isn’t hard edges — it’s soft armor. What you build now, inside, is what meets the weirdness later. And weirdness is guaranteed.
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